This is a birthday party sleepover spa idea for girls 12 years old- 14 years old.   First send out invitations: Make these on a computer, any way you really want to.  That the fun of it!   Get food: Gurlie stuff like- POP! lots of this, popcorn, chips, and good food too! Ex: Cucumbers, and mayo to make cucumber and mayo sandwiches! What will we do you ask? This party is unlike many others...   MAKE IT INTO A SPA! You can either go to a real spa and they will do everything, or you can make one at home!  First, set the scene... You can do this in any room, but it works best if you do it in a VERY large bathroom, or if you have a hot-tub, you can do it in that room.   Pick a color, any color.  It actually seems weird, but color can help enhance the mood!   Decorate that room with everything the color you chose. Say I chose purple, I would have purple towels, purple candles, purple food, etc-.   For food in your spa room you should have your color you chose glasses with ice water in them, and a platter or fruits and veggies.  In the room put facial products, creams, and things to put in the tub.   Have lots of make-up and tissue handy too.  About 30 minutes before the guests arrive, you should have everything ready.   To prepare the tub-- if your having one, which would be a good idea, you need to... 1- Put HOT water into it, remember, you can always add cold water!   2-Place lemon slices in the tub, and raspberries in there too, trust me, IT WORKS!  Let the guests add all the bubbles and bathbeads when its time to get in.   Play music if you'd like while your in there.   You can do kind of a rotation. Some people will be at facials, some at make-overs, and some at the bathtub spa part!  You can make many more areas to have in your spa, I'm just giving you ideas! AFTER THE SPA IS DONE: get into pj's, and make something to eat.  It's more fun if you guys make it rather than your parents.   Put your sleeping bags in a circle, and pop in a movie.  While the movies in, play a game.  But first tell everyone the only rule about the game: WHATEVER IS SAID, DOES NOT LEAVE THAT ROOM, NO MATTER WHAT. And make EVERYONE promise to that. The game is: One person picks a question to ask like: Name 3 guys you like the most. And everyone has to answer, honestly. Keep on doing this, the more daring the better!!!    Now, try to calm down a bit.  Play a game, paint nails, or watch another movie (this time, really watch it).  In the morning, have parfaits, and let them make them! Treat Bags: A Make-up bag filled with make-up, jewelry, and candy!  Girls are never to old for candy!  After breakfast, send them on their way. I had this party, and it ROCKED! It was the best ever, and I think you should all try it! P.S- 1 tip, don't put whipped cream on the face of the girl who falls asleep first, she will be mad in the morning, and you could lose a great friend to something so stupid!