I had favor bags for both the girls and their moms. The girls had a little cupcake bag that I had gotten on clearance for 25 cents, and I had a pack of princess gummies, a fancy hankerchief (3/$1 at the Dollar Store) and a tiny princess teaset (my big splurge at $2 each at Walmart in the Easter aisle). They also took home their decorated hats, the beaded bracelets they made, the decorated picture frames, the candy from bingo and the favor cup from the table. The moms had gift bags (3/$1 at the Dollar Store) with a small baggie of Dove chocolates, two scented tealight candles, a bath fizzy (10/$1 at the Dollar Store) and a pack of tea.  I think everyone had a fun time and it was really nice to spend time with some of the mom's that I had only met once or twice at school, and to spend time with the girls too. One mom suggested that we have a tea party every so often just to be able to use good china and fancy dishes! It was a good amount of work, but it was fun work and from the initial idea, the planning and preparation time was less than 2 weeks. My girls said that they want boys at their party next year, so I think it was good to do the tea party when I did! Many thanks to this website for a lot of good ideas I hope you can use some of mine!